\n\tThe year was 1998, and representatives gathered from various 12-step fellowships to discuss ways to help carry the message of recovery to the sexual compulsive who still suffers. Many of those at that Interfellowship Forum lamented a lack of focus on the Twelve Steps at meetings. In response, our newsletter, the SCAnner<\/a>, commissioned an entire issue in 1999 devoted to members’ sharings about working the steps.\u00a0Each story\u00a0represents only the member who wrote it; none of these writings are SCA Conference Approved Literature. Take what you like and leave the rest.\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 1: Powerless but not Helpless – Joe F (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 2: Believing in Number Two – Vito (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 3: The Paradox of the Third Step – David A-S (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 4: Surrender Dorothy – Jeffry D (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 5: As Sick as our Secrets – Seana A (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 6: Getting Ready – Stuart C (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 7: Humility not Humiliation – Neil R (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 8: Beyond the Surface – Dean Y (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 9: Love Does Mean Having to Say You’re Sorry – John K (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 10: Being Steadfast in Recovery Leads to Constant Renewal – David D (Milwaukee)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n \n\tStep 11: The $64,000 Question – Paul W (NY)<\/strong><\/a>\n<\/p>\n